My mother gave me a gift this year. It was a bound and translated copy of her own mother’s letters to her, written and mailed from a refugee settlement in Salzburg in the late 1940′s. These letters were accounts of family happenings back in Europe and messages of love to a daughter who had pursued hope across the Atlantic, in Canada. Impossible to ignore, there were also requests for material goods to be sent back if her daughter’s new world prosperity would at all allow; requests that were indicators of the difficult living conditions in Europe’s rubble.

Are you fed up with googling adult diapers in your quest for the best deals on incontinence products and instead, coming up with page after page of unhelpful links to AB/DL (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) sites? I have been frustrated by this experience since I purposely try to avoid the murky places the internet is more than willing to take me. You know – “as a man thinketh in his heart” and all that spiritual stuff. I find that when dealing with life’s normal and sometimes abundant adversities, it is important to keep my mind in healthy places. I would prefer to not be constantly confronted with the need to sort between good or dubious material. The constant demand is tiring.

Adult diapers are expensive, no matter where you buy them. Certainly you can do better online than anywhere else, but even after you have found your favorite supplier, the expenses associated with incontinence (your own or that of someone you care for) are going to impact your budget. But, if you pay taxes to Uncle Sam, there is some good news that accompanies these extra expenses.